Andrea, thank you for this rich word. I have to confess that comparison is something I’ve wrestled with deeply, often tied to my tendency toward people-pleasing and the fear of man. When I measure myself against others or try to live up to expectations, it’s really me forgetting who I already am in Christ and that His sufficiency is enough.
Your mention of covetousness struck me—my old pastor used to say, “covetousness is simply a lack of contentment in what God has already given us.” That reminder hits hard, because whenever I drift into comparison, I realize I’m not resting in the portion He’s placed in my hands.
On a lighter note, I also have to say—I loved the artwork for this article. It captured the theme so beautifully and really drew me in before I even started reading. Thank you for speaking so honestly and pointing us back to the abundance we have in Christ.
Hey Robert! Thanks a ton for mentioning the images! I’ve been having a blast exploring new ways to add more tone and context to my writing. I really appreciate your feedback and would absolutely love to hear any insights you have to help me make my writing voice even stronger!
Robert, I found so much hope in the words of the apostle Paul. Covetousness was the thing, it really was a struggle for the disciple who was given the honor of penning most of the New Testament. I'm grateful he was vulnerable, which has helped me talk openly about my own sordid journey.
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One of the verses that really helps me is Hebrews, “Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” So we may boldly say: “The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?” (13:5-6). Again, the Lord gives us perspective that it's Him—we have Him. It's the same whisper I hear when I begin pinning over things, “Andrea, you have Me.” It has a way of jolting me back into Kingdom reality and fixing my eyes on Who is orchestrating the very moment I'm standing in.
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Jesus is really that good. He is so very sweet, better than anything I've ever known🙏🏾. Blessings, dear friend!
Thank you, Andrea, for writing about a topic that can be so prevalent in our lives and on social media. You once again bring us truth and grace, sweet friend!
Hi Brooke, I truly appreciate you taking the time to read this and for your presence here. This topic resonates deeply with me due to my upbringing and the challenges I faced within my family, as well as the trauma I experienced from feeling overlooked and rejected.
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The constant striving to be good enough led me down the path of perfectionism, competition, and covetousness—a place that is so isolating.
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I recognize the ways in which God has brought healing into my life, while also acknowledging that there’s still a lot more for Him to do.
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My hope is that this message touches someone who might be struggling, encouraging them to avoid embracing the wrong path and instead enjoy the grace that is abundantly available. My prayer is for peope to find solace and security in His love, joy, and peace alone.
With this post and with God’s grace I believe what you hope for will be fulfilled. Please KNOW how deeply loved and accepted you are in God’s family, Andrea!
Great word Andrea, I have seen first-hand how comparison is a thief stealing my contentment and joy. Even worse, as you say it blinds me to the many ways God is blessing and using me. Satan loves to get us into the comparison trap because it brings us right back to unbelief in God's goodness.
Wow, Donna, you said it!! The enemy wants to steal the word (promises) from us and comparison is a crafty fox that tries to enter the garden. I'm grateful we can speak openly about our struggles, his tactics, and the Lord’s abundant goodness. Each time we shed light on something that wants to shame, it loses its power. We will rise victorious in the Lord, Amen!!
Thank you, Andrea. I need to learn to remember that God is the provider and that He WILL provide. For me, it's not really an envy of what others have, but rather a wondering when my turn will happen - not a wanting to go back to Egypt but a longing to enter the Promised Land.
Mary, I hear you. I've stood in several of these shoes at various times. But the Lord, is so incredibly kind to patiently and gently raise my eyes from the dust of this world to gaze upon Him. I find when I behold Him, I realize I have everything I need for the moment I am granted. I can't help but think of the Lord’s words in Matthew 6. Be anxious for nothing because our heavenly Father knows what we need and supplies it at just the right time. In this season, I am learning to remain in the rhythm of rest and walking in the cadence of heaven for He who so loves us is never late, never early, but always on time. Amen.
I loved your point about Jacob saying he had all—such a powerful reminder that in Christ, we don’t just have plenty, we truly have everything. Wow. Thank you for writing with such clarity and grace. Praying we all keep our eyes on Him and not on comparison, so we can rest in the abundance already ours.
Such a beautiful reflection, Andrea. I love how you tied Scripture and personal story together—it makes the message so real and relatable. A much-needed reminder that in Jesus we already have more than enough. Thank you for sharing this!
Andrea, thank you for this rich word. I have to confess that comparison is something I’ve wrestled with deeply, often tied to my tendency toward people-pleasing and the fear of man. When I measure myself against others or try to live up to expectations, it’s really me forgetting who I already am in Christ and that His sufficiency is enough.
Your mention of covetousness struck me—my old pastor used to say, “covetousness is simply a lack of contentment in what God has already given us.” That reminder hits hard, because whenever I drift into comparison, I realize I’m not resting in the portion He’s placed in my hands.
On a lighter note, I also have to say—I loved the artwork for this article. It captured the theme so beautifully and really drew me in before I even started reading. Thank you for speaking so honestly and pointing us back to the abundance we have in Christ.
Hey Robert! Thanks a ton for mentioning the images! I’ve been having a blast exploring new ways to add more tone and context to my writing. I really appreciate your feedback and would absolutely love to hear any insights you have to help me make my writing voice even stronger!
I think your writing voice I strong now. It’s unique and captivating. I wouldn’t change your writing style or voice at all.
Robert, I found so much hope in the words of the apostle Paul. Covetousness was the thing, it really was a struggle for the disciple who was given the honor of penning most of the New Testament. I'm grateful he was vulnerable, which has helped me talk openly about my own sordid journey.
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One of the verses that really helps me is Hebrews, “Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” So we may boldly say: “The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?” (13:5-6). Again, the Lord gives us perspective that it's Him—we have Him. It's the same whisper I hear when I begin pinning over things, “Andrea, you have Me.” It has a way of jolting me back into Kingdom reality and fixing my eyes on Who is orchestrating the very moment I'm standing in.
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Jesus is really that good. He is so very sweet, better than anything I've ever known🙏🏾. Blessings, dear friend!
Thank you, Andrea, for writing about a topic that can be so prevalent in our lives and on social media. You once again bring us truth and grace, sweet friend!
Hi Brooke, I truly appreciate you taking the time to read this and for your presence here. This topic resonates deeply with me due to my upbringing and the challenges I faced within my family, as well as the trauma I experienced from feeling overlooked and rejected.
•
The constant striving to be good enough led me down the path of perfectionism, competition, and covetousness—a place that is so isolating.
•
I recognize the ways in which God has brought healing into my life, while also acknowledging that there’s still a lot more for Him to do.
•
My hope is that this message touches someone who might be struggling, encouraging them to avoid embracing the wrong path and instead enjoy the grace that is abundantly available. My prayer is for peope to find solace and security in His love, joy, and peace alone.
Blessings, sweet friend💖
With this post and with God’s grace I believe what you hope for will be fulfilled. Please KNOW how deeply loved and accepted you are in God’s family, Andrea!
I am a work in progress. God is so good, He who has begun a good work will complete it, Amen🙌🏾
Great word Andrea, I have seen first-hand how comparison is a thief stealing my contentment and joy. Even worse, as you say it blinds me to the many ways God is blessing and using me. Satan loves to get us into the comparison trap because it brings us right back to unbelief in God's goodness.
Wow, Donna, you said it!! The enemy wants to steal the word (promises) from us and comparison is a crafty fox that tries to enter the garden. I'm grateful we can speak openly about our struggles, his tactics, and the Lord’s abundant goodness. Each time we shed light on something that wants to shame, it loses its power. We will rise victorious in the Lord, Amen!!
Thank you, Andrea. I need to learn to remember that God is the provider and that He WILL provide. For me, it's not really an envy of what others have, but rather a wondering when my turn will happen - not a wanting to go back to Egypt but a longing to enter the Promised Land.
Mary, I hear you. I've stood in several of these shoes at various times. But the Lord, is so incredibly kind to patiently and gently raise my eyes from the dust of this world to gaze upon Him. I find when I behold Him, I realize I have everything I need for the moment I am granted. I can't help but think of the Lord’s words in Matthew 6. Be anxious for nothing because our heavenly Father knows what we need and supplies it at just the right time. In this season, I am learning to remain in the rhythm of rest and walking in the cadence of heaven for He who so loves us is never late, never early, but always on time. Amen.
We are all children of God. Sometimes we forget he loves us all.
Such an important blessing to remember, especially the climate we are currently living in. Jesus died for each of us and His love has no exceptions🙏🏾
A good reminder
I loved your point about Jacob saying he had all—such a powerful reminder that in Christ, we don’t just have plenty, we truly have everything. Wow. Thank you for writing with such clarity and grace. Praying we all keep our eyes on Him and not on comparison, so we can rest in the abundance already ours.
Such a beautiful reflection, Andrea. I love how you tied Scripture and personal story together—it makes the message so real and relatable. A much-needed reminder that in Jesus we already have more than enough. Thank you for sharing this!